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How We Care for Campers: Handling Tears and Meltdowns with Empathy

Jun 8, 2026 – 4 min read

Whether it’s your child’s first day of camp or your family had a challenging morning, there are lots of reasons why camp drop off (or any other part of the camp day) can become emotional for your camper. And there may be days when your child just simply misses you!
 
At NORY, we don’t rush past those moments or try to quickly “fix” them. When a child is upset, we don’t say, “You’re going to have so much fun!” Because in that moment, it doesn’t feel fun. It feels hard. Instead, we slow down and meet them where they are.

 
Our instructors are trained in what we call an empathy-driven approach to behavior management. Before redirecting, before problem-solving, before moving on to the next activity, they focus on building a genuine emotional connection with a camper having a hard moment.

 
That might sound like:

 
"How are you feeling right now? Are you sad because you miss your mom? You know what? Sometimes I miss my mom too. I totally get it. And it is completely okay to feel sad."

 
That moment of real empathy changes everything. When a child feels truly understood, rather than managed or rushed through their emotions, they begin to relax. They start to trust. And from that place of trust, we can gently move forward together.

 
This approach isn’t a script or a technique pulled from a training manual. It’s rooted in how we believe human connection works, at any age.

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Moments like these don’t happen by chance. They happen because of the people leading them.
 
At NORY, we’re incredibly intentional about who we bring onto our team. Each year about less thant 3% of instructors that apply to work for NORY are selected.

 
We’re not just looking for strong STEM backgrounds. We’re looking for individuals who are naturally empathetic, patient, and genuinely love working with children.

 
From there, our educators go through extensive training focused not just on curriculum and safety, but on how to build trust, read emotions, and support each child as an individual.

 
Creating a space where children feel safe, seen, and understood isn’t a coincidence. It’s something we design for, starting with the people we hire.

Inspiring and Caring Teachers Matter

This same empathy-first mindset guides how we support every challenge at camp, whether it’s navigating a conflict with a peer, working through frustration on a project, or handling the very normal experience of something not going as planned.
 
At NORY, empathy isn’t just something our instructors model. It’s something we intentionally teach as well.

 
Empathy is one of the core skills we develop in every camper. We purposefully create moments where children are encouraged to see from another perspective, collaborate through differences, and think about how their ideas impact others.

 
Hard moments will happen when your child is away from you, it's unavoidable. At NORY, those moments are met with care, understanding, and thoughtful guidance. This is what makes NORY special.

Teaching Empathy to Our Campers